I live with two flatmates. The one you haven't met is female, 6'2" and a size 10 (or thereabouts). I mentioned in passing I was fat, she said I was more curvy and it started me thinking. I used to be about a size 18 (depression, old life and many problems). My problem wasn't genetics it was bad diet. I didn't really eat that much, but what I did eat was saturated fat and exercise was something other people did. So now I'm a 14 and definitely larger than Karen but I what I realised is that if I *really* wanted to be thinner I'd devote more time to exercise and would work on my diet even further. Ergo, I'm not too unhappy where I am!